Finally she's here

Eh i did write something on my delivery...tgk ada draft je hehe.So just publish je le ye
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Alhamdullillah this is our newborn, Aisy Arissa.She was borned on 13.12.13 on blessed Friday.
I was admitted to the labour room a day before and by that time i'm already 4cm.It was around 10pm.
It was a prolong labour and tiring.
Lepas bersalin terus knocked out for a few hours hehe.
Alhamdullillah this time round no induce, no pain killer or anything.Just as natural as we could be.
At the very end when there was no progress(you see your cervix need to be dilated to 10cm then only the baby can be pushed out), doctor wanted to induce me to speed things up.But the induction will cause more pain than i already had at that point of time.
I refused and alhamdullillah there were some progress though not that much.
But finally it was time to push and alhamdullillah it went well, though banyak kali gak le try to push out because at that point of time i was so tired due to the long hours.
Bayangkan 10pm 4cm, 6.45am the next morning baru ready to push.
But the midwife was really helpful and helped me out.
Aspa saw Arissa's head came out and he said die hampir pengsan...haha.And this is the picture.
Doktor yg beria suruh ambil gambar...hehe lawak betul time tu.Padahal masa tu mmg da tak tahan sakit dan nak get everything over je.Ni siap nak amik2 gambar lagi...sabo je le eden.


Anyway alhamdullillah, everything went well.
And now tgh pantang le.
When people ask, so when is the next baby?i told them maybe no more.
But again looking into the trend...i mean..since aisy, alesya and now arissa, the delivery is getting tougher...not simpler.More pain and more long hours.
Perhaps because everytime after the delivery and when people ask when is the next child, i always said...never...or perhaps in 10 years time..or something like that...so it's like tulah or something.
Mcm konon kalau kite panjat gunung pastu lepas tu kite cakap, "sumpah aku takkan naik gunung ni lagi"...mmg kita tak digalakkan utk naik gunung lagi...as something bad will happen heh.
So the same goes here.
I think the theory applies here too.Perhaps because I already conditioned myself masa aku ckp benda ni...and when the time comes for the next baby, it becomes more difficult than the previous one.

Mcm aisy hari tu, mmg sakit...but bearable ...siap masa sakit contraction i can still sleep in between heh.
And pushed only twice..yg 1st tu pun sbb salah push...siap doktor gelakan lagi.So the second push Aisy terus keluar..alhamdullillah.It was easy though mmg sakit sgt gak le.
So I remember i said perhaps 10 tahun lagi kot baru next child...but less than a couple of years later i was pushing out Alesya pula.Maybe tak cukup haul le kot 10 tahun tu...and the delivery was difficult and painful.